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Mr. Trump вы своему ребенку порекомендовали бы выбрать такую карьеру?
[trn]$2, 421 - eto v techenie pervogo goda, kotoryj vse ravo ves’ v razlichnyh kursah i trenirovkah po raznym provincijam. Vo vremja nahozhdenija vne bazy platitsja nadbavka, tak chto real’no summa vyshe. Vtoroj god – eto uzhe 2, 940, Tretij – 3, 556. Kak ja zametil – eto bazovyj oklad, a k nemu idut komandirovochnye, nadbavka za klass I special’nost, to e mozhno smelo nakinut’ eshe procentov 30. I eto zamet’te pri otsutstvii zatrat na zhile’e i pitanie. V pozharniki i policiju normativy sdavat’ konechno pridetsja, no pri prochih ravnyh uslovijah skoree voz’mut cheloveka posle sluzhby chem proso s ulicy. Chto kasaetsja kar’ery dlja rebenka, to ja by vybral variant s oplatoi za uchebu po nuzhnoj special’nosti (2-h godichanja programma hotja by v tom zhe BSIT) –normal’naja special’nost’ za besplatno, potom tri goda garantirovannogo trudoustrojstva (35-40 v god) posle kotorogo na grazhdanke s rukami otorvut. Tem bolee chto za eti 3 goda mozhno prodolzhat’ ucheby za schet gosudarstva. Gorazdo interesnee chem.prosto rjadovym. Chto kasaetsja opasnostej armejskoj sluzhby, to v otsutstvii boevyh dejstvij ( v Afganistan berut tol’ko dobrovol’cev i ja ne dumaju chto kto-libo napadet na Kanadu v bluzhajshee vremja) verojatnost’ neschastnyh sluchaev ne bol’she chem na grazhdanke.
NCM Subsidized Education Program ($), NCM-SEP
Regular Force , Non Commissioned Member
Under the program NCM-SEP, selected personnel will complete post-secondary institution programs that fulfil all or most of the initial occupation training requirements for the occupations in the Regular Force.
Applicants must be accepted without condition in any one of the specific eligible programs determined by Canadian Forces.
They will be subsidized for up to two years , except for the only French authorized program by Transport Canada for Avionics Systems Technician which is three years.
The selected occupations that applicants may enter through the NCM-SEP are
Naval Weapons Technician,
Aerospace Telecommunications and Information Systems Technician,
Land Communications and Information Systems Technician,
Naval Electronics technician (Acoustic,Communications or Tactical),
Операция обошлась в 4860 долларов, длилась около 10-15 минут. Весь ход операции можно было наблюдать родным на видео. Конечно, мальчишку не удалось уломать поискать что-либо подешевле. Но зато в активе:
- он забрал свое заявление на добровольную службу в Афгане,
- он теперь знает, зачем он будет торчать в кампусе все лето,
- он повзрослел.
Клиника рядом с домом и в цену операции входит весь последующий период наблюдения, включая обеспечение лекарствами и терапией. И любые осложнения и повторные операции уже за счет клиники (то бишь, страховки).
К своей службе в армии относится, как необходимой ступеньке роста.
Образование хочет получить за счет государства, пока склоняется к работе в полиции.
Давить не хочу. Мне нравится наблюдать, как выстраивается его отношение к действительности.
19 лет - еще все впереди, но главное он уже понял, ему нужно быть мужиком, настоящим. Остается не упустить правильного КАК...
Я прилагаю свой разговор с сыном на мсн после операции. Прошла неделя, и он уже стал не надолго выходить в интернет. Не больше, чем на час.
Ему было легче писать по-английски, но текст очень простой. Слов, конечно, многовато и они не всегда профессиональны и грамотно написаны, но зато это именно его впечатления, как пациента. И, возможно, кому-нибудь это будет интересно.
Встречаемая в тексте аббревиатура PFK означает PhotoRefractive Keratectomy.
Nick says:
I was told to not wear contacts 3 days prior to surgery, so I took them out 72 hours prior. The day of, I woke up and drove to a subway station where I parked my car. I didn't want to drive all the way there, in case after surgery my eyesight wouldn't permit it. Once there, they ran more diagnostic tests on my eyes in preparation for LASIK. I was somewhat slated between LASIK and PRK because they both had their individual benefits I liked.
Nick says:
LASIK had faster healing time, and was the preferred choice by most.
Nick says:
PRK had longer healing time, more discomfort, irritation for the first week or so but because it did not involve a flap, it left no scar, and no chance of the flap opening up due to eye trauma - say, during sports or work.
Nick says:
The doctor reassured me though that with the new Intralase, the odds of flap misplacing were extremely low after it fully healed, because instead of cutting the flap with a keratekome, it was being lasered open. And it would be impossible to see the flap scar, unless looked for specifically by a specialist under microscope. Even an eye doctor wouldn't be able to see it, presumably.
Nick says:
They gave me some drops, specific to LASIK, and I was led into a room where Dr. Cheske's assistant, gave some more freezing drops, and talked me through the next few steps. Two-part procedure, in this room they would put a suction cup on my eyes and, using Intralase, cut my flap. Then, they'd lead me into another room, where the actual laser would do the works.
Nick says:
Dr. Cheskes came and they began to try to put the suction cup on my right eye. But it was hard to relax, because there was an extremely bright light shining above me. I had to relax my eyelid though, for the suction cup. It would seem it just couldn't grab properly. And it hurt, too. It wasn't supposed to hurt, but it hurt me and I asked why. They explained that my eyelids are very tight and the suction cup isn't grabbing on properly. I asked them to try a few times. I focused on relaxing, but even relaxed it wouldn't grab on. Dr. Cheskes, said he encountered this many times before, and it's very risky to do LASIK in my case. Because of my tight eyelids. Since I was OK with PRK beforehand, he proposed that, and I agreed.
Nick says:
I was led back into the waiting room, where I had to sign a different consent form - since PRK is another type of surgery. I was also given different drops...I think, not sure. Several minutes later, after I read through the consent form and signed it, they led me into the laser room. For PRK, since no flap was being made, it was straight to the laser room. I did ask whether we should reschedule for tomorrow, since my right eye was hurting. I had mild hemorrage from the suction cap. They reassured it made no difference so I went ahead with it.
More freezing drops. They took these metal things, I think scupulas, and put them on my eyelids, to prevent me from blinking. Then Dr. Cheskes proceeded to remove the epithelium with some sort of a brush tool. There are various methods to remove the epithelium, that I read about. I thought alcohol would've been the best, but Dr. Cheskes disagreed and used the brush tool. It stung a little as I felt the epithelium removed, but wasn't painful or anything. Then I was told to look at the red light. I saw the laser hover its beams over my cornea. It was very fast, and before I knew it, Dr. Cheskes put a bandage contact lens on the eye. He then repeated the procedure on my other eye. I don't think this lasted any more than 5-10 minutes from the point of me coming into the room, to the point of me leaving it.
Drops were always being dropped into my eye. I'm not sure if they were all freezing. But I think right before the contact lens was put in, I was given some sort of a steroid drop - for cornea healing.
When both the contacts were in place, and the eyelid holder thing was removed, I was told to get up and look over at a picture in another room. I could see it almost perfectly. So you get 20/20 pretty much on the spot. But it's hazy and blurry because of all the drops I think.
Nick says:
But as they lead you into the resting room, a lot of stuff starts to happen.
Nick says:
Your eyes sting, very sensitive to light, watery.
Nick says:
Your nose becomes slightly runny.
Nick says:
I just kept my eyes closed most of the time while resting back in a comfortable leather chair.
Nick says:
Elgiz was sitting in one beside me and I was just talking to him about the procedure.
Nick says:
After about 15 minutes or so, when the freezing drops wore off, I FELT A LOT OF DISCOMFORT.
Nick says:
My eyes stung as if someone poured mild acid over them.
ick says:
The assisstant put some more drops in, and it helped a little. About 30 minutes after the procedure they did some quick tests on my eye, to make sure they're fine and there are no complications and then they let me go rest again.
Nick says:
After about 1 hour I was told I could go home.
Nick says:
I was given a pouch with all the medications I'll need for the next month, and pair of sunglasses, as well as paper with instructions and advice.
Nick says:
I put some more drops in myself, sunglasses and me and Elgiz headed back, on the subway, to my car.
Nick says:
I took a Tylenol 3 right before we left the clinic, and I think it kicked in just when we got off the subway.
Nick says:
My eyes felt a lot better already, and I could see somewhat clearly.
Nick says:
I felt that I could drive home. I asked Elgiz if he wanted to drive, but he didn't have his G2 and didn't feel confident. I said I felt confident so we got in. More drops. Off I went.
Nick says:
I drove slow and had Elgiz looking around just in case as well. But we got home no problem. It was only 1 block to drive.
Nick says:
But the more I used my eyes for driving, I felt them straining. So by the time we parked home, they were very tired, and discomforted. Perfect timing. I went upstairs. Put in my first med drops. Steroids/Antibiotics/Anti-inflammatories.
Nick says:
With LASIK, some people heal so fast they drive right the next morning. Generally 20/40 or better by end of 2nd day for most.
Nick says:
With PRK this takes a week.
Nick says:
I had my surgery Wednesday and told I probably wouldn't be able to drive till Monday.
Nick says:
The epithelium takes 2-5 days to heal depending on age, health, etc
Nick says:
I drove right after the operation, but it was just 1 block, and my eyes were tired.
The next morning my vision wasn't that great for driving, so I didn't drive. But on Friday I think I was close to 20/40 again. Saturday/Sunday were pretty clear. And Monday I think was almost 20/20.
ick says:
I was supposed to get my bandage contacts out on Monday, 5 days after, but it was Victoria's day, so I came in today, on Tuesday.
Nick says:
They did a visual acuity check before they took them out, and one right after.
Nick says:
I could see almost 20/15 (better than normal!) with both eyes, but not clearly.
Nick says:
The actual prescription I was given was 20/20 right eye, and 20/30 left eye.
Nick says:
I had -2.5 both my eyes before surgery.
Nick says:
I think the reason for the 20/30 for my left eye, was because it healed slower...around the 4th day after surgery a girl punched me in my left eye.
Nick says:
The Doctor said that's not the reason...he just said after you take contacts out, the epithelium is a bit rough still. and prescription fluctuates.
Nick says:
Forgot to mention the 24 hour post-operative check up, on Thursday.
Nick says:
My eyes were so light sensitive I couldn't do the visual acuity test for more than 1-2 sec at a time.
Zy писал(а):Зачем обыгрывать, я серьезно спрашиваю.
Ответ почти серьезным тоже был.
Настоящий - это такое емкое слово, что достаточно хоть чуток от него чего-нибудь отскрести и ты уже в кругу.
Вот скажут про тебя, что ты настоящий отец - и уже считай, что автоматом, ты и мужик настоящий.
А скажут про меня настоящая кокетка, то мне уже рукой подать будет до настоящей женщины.
Zy писал(а):Зайду с другой стороны: что говорить о том, что "он уже понял, ему нужно быть мужиком, настоящим"?
Конкретно для него, это будет выражаться в том, что он будет отвечать за свой выбор. Он его делает осознанно, платит за него свои кровные и отвечает за последствия.
И больше всего это НУЖНО ему. А значит никто не будет бегать за ним и страховать его промахи.
Ответственность - это один из компонентов "настоящести".
Принятие решения - следующий шаг.
Мужество - ведь он противостоял родительскому мнению, особенно сильному отцовскому.
Не скрою, что определение своему поступку он получил - ГЛУПОСТЬ!. Но я вижу, что он не запаниковал. Сделал выводы. И сестре (ей тоже предстоит такая же операция вскоре) уже дает советы, исходя и из своего опыта и наших предложений.
